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Jack McNulty's avatar

Your exploration of home's multifaceted nature is something I identify with, particularly as someone who has struggled to define what 'home' means to me.

I appreciate how you've woven together both the tangible and intangible aspects - from physical design to emotional connection. This gives me some new areas of thought to explore.

The quote about home being 'where I find comfort in solitude and joy in the community' especially struck me. It captures that delicate balance between personal space and shared experience, but it also feels like it’s lacking in my life...and perhaps one reason I struggle with defining the concept of home.

Your article reminds me that perhaps the challenge of defining home isn't a shortcoming but an acknowledgment of its complex and evolving nature. Thank you for facilitating this thoughtful dialogue about something so fundamental yet so personal.

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Michelle Lester's avatar

I lived in the UK my entire life until 2 years ago when the nest emptied and my husband and I decided to do the one thing we’d always promised ourselves: live somewhere in Europe. Portugal called so here we are, yet we still find ourselves doing that distinction dance between ‘home’ (here) and ‘home home’ (the place we lived, worked and brought our kids up in in England). We feel at home here - Anne sums it up beautifully: ‘home is intimacy and connection with the details and rhythms of a place, an accumulation of lived experience and relationships.’ It’s the rhythms. And the way daily routines in this new place etch themselves into your skin. The relationships are the hardest bit, though. Nothing replaces the close family and friends you’ve travelled your life with.

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